KonQuesting

Awesome, this is super helpful! I’d be using a very similar setup. It might be best to start small, invite a couple people on, and see how that memory scales. I’ll be avoiding any auto-scaling unless it becomes a much bigger project.

How much headroom do you have left on that? I’m considering starting up a public instance and would love to get an estimate for per-user workload on a federated instance.

I’ve been on Matrix and Mastodon for a number of years, but I’m new to Lemmy. Matrix is already better than competitors like Discord, in my opinion. It has a healthy pool of users including several major tech organizations.

I’ve never been too active on Mastodon for the same reason I never got into Twitter. I just don’t enjoy “microblogging,” and prefer mediums that are more oriented towards actual conversation. Lemmy does an excellent job in that respect.