Seeing as this thread is still active, instead of continuing to reply to people throughout, gonna go ahead and put this out here.
If you’re not finding an active community for something (safe for work, that is) or any community whatsoever for your interest, you’re welcome to post about the topics that interest you in !general@lemmy.world till you find enough likeminded people to get a separate community going. This was always allowed tbh, but I’ve tried to make it more explicit and clear that it’s cool.
Quick search surfaced the following for Linux:
k3b, where the source repo states bluray burning capabilities.
xfburn also mentions bluray burning capabilities.
For Windows, albeit old and unupdated, I know the following still works for other purposes (never tried bluray burning/writing though):
ImgBurn mentions bluray burning/writing capabilities, but never tried it.
Bonus: not capable of bluray burning/writing but just fun to mention for any still into ripping/writing to discs on Windows:
InfraRecorder, simply a classic, and it’s open source!