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  • My 10 year old has ADHD, and threads like this have helped my understanding. Thanks for sharing your experiences.

    What does my daughter need from me, her Dad? She has an understanding pediatrician and a good therapist. My wife and I have given her freedom to choose how she organizes her day within reason. She has never done poorly in school and has impressive interest in art and science. We’ve been fortunate to have flexible school teachers most years. The kid has developed coping skills of her own, but I can still tell that brushing her teeth or getting in the shower or getting started on her homework are monumental struggles every. single. time. I don’t doubt that she will be fine in the long term, but I would love any advice on how to help day to day life to be a little less exhausting for her while still helping her learn how to function independently.

    What are things people have said or done for you that helped you feel seen and loved?












  • I’ll try to list things that aren’t in the typical internet echo chamber. Bring on the controversy. These are just my opinions.

    50% of the shelf space at the grocery store is just different forms of corn syrup, sometimes with some trans fat mixed in, generationally twisting our idea of what food is in a race to the cheapest, most addictive product.

    The only way it’s profitable for someone to knock on your door to sell ANYTHING is if they are obscenely inflating the price (think 100-600% markup)

    Most supplements, especially expensive ones with TV ads

    Dr Scholl’s and the goodfeet store

    Genuine leather is just about the opposite of what you’d think

    Bamboo fabric which is pretty much just a different way to say rayon but is pitched as a revolutionary and environmentally friendly cloth

    Most bladeless fans just hide fan blades in the base

    Many cleaning products don’t do better than diluted soap and water (even for sanitizing) especially the ones with TV ads

    Financial planners who are actually financial product salespeople

    Most single-purpose kitchen gadgets, especially as-seen-on-TV

    The realtors racket: I just paid $30k for an internet posting and mediocre advice

    Many personal hygiene products are just repackaging the same two or three active ingredients by the same one or two megacorporations

    Essential oils (even ignoring mystical claims) big names charge an order of magnitude higher than they should