It’s important to understand that being on dating apps is not the same as dating in real life. We often see people in more superficial ways on apps and judge them in a way we wouldn’t necessarily do in real life.

Women looking at men that way in dating apps is definitely a reflection on how they do in real life but it’s amplified quite a bit.

Men are the same. How many times have you swiped left on a girl just because you didn’t think she was attractive? She seemed really cool and like someone you’d get along with but she just wasn’t attractive.

This again is a reflection on how men view women in real life but amplified. In real life you wouldn’t be that harsh.

It’s important to stay grounded and remember that everyone is just a stupid human who thinks they know what they want and may put high expectations on someone but often doesn’t take a moment to think ‘Am I all that though?’

That sounds so tough man. You’re in my thoughts, I don’t know what else to say. I hope you get all the strength and happiness you need.

The quality of reddit has seriously gone downhill. It feels like being on Facebook or something, the comments are cringrworthy and just plain odd and the posts aren’t great either.

Whatever lightning wants…

A loofah is for the body, you could use a washcloth for the face but I don’t do that my facial skin is too sensitive. Also you don’t need to use a loofah if you’re skin is too sensitive, you can just use a nice sponge but honestly even your hands are fine if that works for you. I was honestly just joking a bit haha

You don’t need to use it there

I use a loofah, man you guys are really living up to the male stereotype haha

I’m a big fan of Murakami also and I loved reading these books. I have some gripes but I can’t get into them because of spoilers. I hope you keep enjoying it!

What do you think so far?

If you watch it on Amazon it has the D&D episode!

What book are you on?

Perdito station by China Meiville(hope I spelled it right) I just started a week ago and have only been able to read a bit because of time constraints but so far I’m pretty intrigued.

Community for sure

Hasn’t it already been established that threads would most likely deathhug most of the fediverse? It’s content would be overwhelming and nothing could keep up with it. I’d rather have the fediverse be a more small scale, cozy and niche place*.