I’m going to actively voice my support for this mentality, more than just an up vote. People saying things like dual booting and rolling distributions are good ideas for genuinely new users who, like you said, have never opened a command prompt or regedit, really shouldn’t be suggested those types of things.
The average dev/tech enthusiast has a horribly bad habit of drastically over estimating the average person’s technical ability. While I believe it’s reasonable to expect new uses to want to try and learn (I’d hope everyone would want to learn sometimes), the reality is that most folks won’t.
The one that just makes me want to scream is when people suggest installing Arch via the wiki. I did this around 2015 or 2016 on a VM and couldn’t get it working. To be fair, I wasn’t terribly motivated to really dive into what was wrong, but people act like it’s really magically simple and clear cut when it’s not. (With the major caveat that perhaps it’s gotten better since last time I tried.)
I think so many of these discussions go to shit because of who the target audience is intended to be and who the responders believe the target audience to be.
I think I agree with most of what you said. My one doubt is about Wayland. I was under the impression it was still a relatively new/niche thing that had problems. Is this no longer the case? I ask because you recommended against things like immutable distros because they’re not super mature yet.
Note: I’m technically inclined but don’t use a Linux distro daily. My personal laptop is my old work Mac and my work laptop is a Mac. My older personal laptop runs Xubuntu.