Mammal@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is the skill/talent you have that you get praised for but you fiercely keep as an hobby/interest with no plans to expand on it?English
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1 year agoLove making complicated, beautiful cocktails for guests. Zero interest in being a bartender at a high-end cocktail bar until / unless I retire.
Acknowledging that the people who hurt you are living in your head and you’re ready to move on. A lot of folks are unable to even get this far.
Therapy.
Truly internalize the realization that the act of imagining scenarios where you get to hurt the people who hurt you is like drinking poison with the expectation that someone other than yourself will be made ill.
living a good life.
This journey is difficult and requires a lot of self-reflection and maturity. Best of luck to you.