I would not want to expose my home server to the internet. VMs have been breached, network stacks too, and any exposed services. I would dump the windows stuff, if nothing else it is not future proof. Consider an AP. Backup consider a hot mount sata enclosure. One can then do swapable high speed backups. I would want off line and off site backups. One issue with rsync is it may not store all file attributes. Just be aware and it may not keep historical snapshots. Some of this depends on how it is configured. Also rsync may not be that secure though it can be too depending how configured.
Edit: Cool concept though. Thanks for sharing.
Edit: Might want to consider some level of volume shadowing or Raid on your server and NAS. Maybe some snapshotting.
Edit: Future proof, have enough memory, cores, and storage.
Regrading AP. Why can’t you just use the wifi functionlity and let your server do the rest? APs are really just glorified WiFi cards with a bridge.