The purpose of life is what you make it.

Society in my area says the purpose of life is to get a job, get married, and have some kids. All of these are optional but each one increases your perceived value to the government and to individual people. Some people work their entire lives conforming to societies expectations for them and still live what they would describe as unfulfilling lives.

Instead, or in addition to, I would suggest you focus on creating your own purpose. I would describe a purpose as a overarching objective for your life. I’ll list some purposes that you could adopt.

• Provide companionship for those who you deem deserving.
• Care for others by providing a stable living environment.
• Guide people to make informed choices.
• Help others to use their resources wisely.
• Inspire peers to think about their purpose in life.
• Join and help an organized group that has an overarching purpose you want to contribute towards.
• Entertain other people and yourself.
• Make something you can share with others.
• Organize others to help achieve a shared purpose.
• Form your own opinions on how life should be lived and apply them.

These are a small sampling of purposes people adopt and you need not limit yourself to one. However be mindful that your attention is limited and each purpose can take a considerable amount of time. With that in mind try to pick goals and activities that help you achieve your purpose(s).

In pursuing your purpose, you will find moments of happiness. Embrace them. You will also find moments of frustration and anger. Understand why you feel this way and learn to embrace them as well. Understand when your emotions are clouding your judgement and learn to resist it when necessary.

Happy travels.